As I have been searching blogs and other internet postings on this side of the issue, I have found two posts that have made me feel OK about praying for Dzhokar. The first came Saturday night on the Facebook clergy page. Rich Melheim posted what he was going to be doing for his children's sermon on Sunday. When I read it, I wished I was doing the children's sermon at my church...
Rich Melheim A CHILDREN'S SERMON THAT CAN GET YOU IN TROUBLE TODAY (A Jesus kind of trouble, that is...)To read the whole thread if you are a member of the ELCA clergy Facebook page click here.
Here's what I'm preaching for the children's sermon at Trinity in Lansdale this morning, after handing out paper and crayons:
I follow a Jesus who said, "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
Any kind of kind kid can write a kind letter to the families of the victims of the Boston bombing, and every kind kid should.
It takes a Jesus kind of kind kid to write a kind letter to the boy who did this terrible thing.
Please take this back to the pew with you, and if God puts it on your heart to act the way Jesus would act toward people who hurt him, draw a picture of yourself, your house, your family or something beautiful that you love.
If you dare, explain that you are a Christian, and since you follow a Jesus who teaches you to love and forgive, you love and forgive him.
Close your letter saying Jesus loves him, and that you are praying one day he will know love and forgiveness. Tell him you hope and pray that one day love will crowd out the hate in his heart, and that he will be known as the kindest, most loving person in prison.
Rich Melheim
To: Dzhokhar Tsarnaev
Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center
330 Brookline Avenue
Boston, MA 02215
The next came today, which prompted me to go ahead and blog this off my chest and out of head and heart. Professor Mary Hess from Luther Seminary and the professor for one of the classes I am taking this semester (Gospel and Global Media) posted on her blog something she read on another blog. I am going to link you to the blog of James Martin, SJ. His blog post is entitled, "Praying for the Dead, for Peace and for our Persecutors." I hope you take the time to read the entire blog, but here is the same excerpt that Professor Hess reposted:
But at some point in this process Christians are called, by Jesus, to pray for those who persecute us, to love our enemies–and even to forgive them. This doesn’t mean that we in any way condone what they did, or that we don’t hope that they receive a just punishment, or that we don’t do everything we can to capture criminals and bring them to swift justice. But we are called to do something more by Jesus: pray for them, love them, forgive them. As he said, if we pray only for those who do good to us, “what are you doing more than others”? Yes, it is hard. For me, it’s almost impossible. But this is what we are asked to do.
When they read this part of the Gospel, some people say that Jesus didn’t know what he was talking about. Jesus didn’t know our world, people say. Or maybe he was just naive. So, therefore, they say, we can ignore this statement. And so some Christians dismiss this part of the Gospel. But if as a Christian you say this, then you must admit that you are saying, in essence, that the Son of God, the Second Person of the Trinity, God Incarnate, didn’t know what he was talking about. Or that Jesus of Nazareth, who himself lived in an extremely violent time, when life was held cheap, didn’t understand violence. Or that Jesus, who was himself the victim of a violent and unjust death, and who nonetheless forgave his executioners from the cross, didn’t have the moral stature to ask us to do this hard thing. And if you refuse even to try to love your enemies, pray for those who persecute you, and forgive those who sin against, then you are also saying that you are taking the first step in walking away from Jesus, just like some of the disciples did all those years ago. And where, I’ve always wondered, did they end up?
Here is a link to a Facebook conversation on the flip side saying that
It is disrespectful to those murdered and those maimed, and their families, to quickly jump to the Christian "we love and forgive the bomber" attitude. Michael CofeyHere is a link to the conversation (if you belong to the ELCA Facebook clergy page)
It is indeed hard to pray for the enemy and for our persecutors, but we have too don't we? This isn't about saving the enemy from the justice system or punishment, but it is about being called to Love Like Jesus.
I also ran across something on line the put the "pray for your enemies" into some sort of phrase that fit this situation perfectly. I wish I had it handy to repeat. It hit me between the eyes, but it also made me remember my childhood, when the words of Jesus about pray for your enemies grabbed me hard. The only enemy that I knew of in the 1950's was Kruschev, of the USSR, so, yes, I prayed for him regularly. I really did. Well, that is the sort of thing that sort of goes away when we are older, at least for awhile. I've never had an enemy that has hurt me physically. I've never had an enemy that spread horrible words about me, or cheated me. It is hard to know if I would really be able to forgive in really difficult circumstances. I remember reading about the parents of a young woman in Grand Rapids, MN who was murdered right on the street. The parents were Lutheran. I remember a news story that said that they were choosing forgiveness rather than vengeance. And they were Lutheran, as I remember it. Could I be like that? Could I pray for my enemy? A true enemy? Could I forgive? I don't think we can forgive if we cant take the first step of praying for somebody. About 15 years ago, I was very angry at two people. I didn't think of them as "enemies" however, I sure had bad thoughts about them, thinking that they had really hurt me. I was reading a book that said that we can forgive somebody as Jesus said, 7 x 70, that this meant Over and Over, not "completely" in one step. I did what the book said: I pretended to talk to that person, say what I thought was the problem between us, and with Jesus' help, I said I Forgive You for what you did to me. I did have to do this several times. For awhile it was daily, then a couple times/week, then weekly, etc. I gradually came to see that these people hadn't deliberately tried to hurt me. They both had done their best under the circumstances, and that just didn't happen to mesh with my needs. I really let go of a lot of bad feelings and in the case of the one person, who wasn't family, I even forgot his name after a few months. So I have come to appreciate forgiveness. And I think that praying for the other person is the first step.
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